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It’s Friday, I’m in love

I’ve taken a couple of days away from my blog because every time I popped on to write about something other than the loss of this ex-best friend, all that poured onto the page was grief and I figured it was time to take a few days to shake that off so that I could blog about other things. The wound’s still pretty fresh, but I have more in my life and it was about time to show my gratitude.

Maybe the one bright spot in my life right now, even with all the drama and loss, is that I don’t have to face all of this alone. I’m one of the lucky ones, in that I’ve got a constant companion. I’ve been with my fiancé since 1998, through family drama, unemployment, and poverty. He’s not perfect and oftentimes doesn’t really know how to help in a given situation, but he’s been there for everything. Always in the line of fire, always trying to protect me or help me through.

I’m still not comfortable offering up personal deets on the internet, so I won’t be sharing his name anytime soon, but I thought it was time to share something positive on my blog. <3

Happy Friday, everyone!

Photo by Tyler Nix on Unsplash

6 Comments

  • Shanae

    June 4, 2021 at 1:48 pm

    First off, thank you very much for venturing over to my little webspace and leaving a comment. That’s one thing I love about the blogging community: The ability to always meet someone new ^_^

    I am sorry for you loss, though I’m sure many people have said this to you already. It always hurts to lose someone close to you, and family isn’t always someone you share DNA with, so you;ve every right to grieve as long as you need. Though it’s nice that you’ve met (and grown) with someone who you can lean on when things seem impossible. I keep hoping my spouse will eventually become that person (not ready to give up on him quite yet despite reasons) but it’s always amazing to see that support with others!

    I truly hope things work out for the better for you soon. You seem like an incredibly strong person, but even the strong sometimes need absolute positivity.

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    • Meep

      June 5, 2021 at 1:48 am

      It’s been rough but I’m in a better headspace than I’ve been in a couple of weeks, that’s for sure. Thank you so much for your kind words!

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  • Kadie

    June 5, 2021 at 6:11 am

    True love is the best thing in the world! My husband and I will be celebrating our 5th anniversary this august and we are still as in love, actually more in love than the day we first met. As cliche as it sounds, he’s my soul mate and always knows how to support me and as you say even if he doesn’t quite know what to do in any given situation just being there is all that matters! I am glad you have that. It’s a wonderful thing 🙂

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    • Meep

      June 7, 2021 at 12:41 am

      It DEFINITELY sounds cliche, but I’m right there with you in Clicheland! I’m so happy you two have each other, it’s so nice that real, honest-to-goodness love still exists in this world. Thank you for sharing that!

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  • Viectoria

    June 8, 2021 at 4:14 pm

    hi meep ◡̈

    I’m very happy that you can observe this difficult moment from another perspective and even more so for not being alone at this time. Having someone who you can count on regardless of the situation is wonderful and I wish (from the deep of my heart) that it is eternal and filled with much love and complicity.

    I understand that your pain is hard now, but believe me, without you noticing this pain will give you some space for beautiful memories and instantly you will smile and have a warm heart when you remember this beloved friend.

    Take care.

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